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Even if this baby malarky goes away, even if this woman only demands financial support and nothing else from your boyfriend, this sort of drama will be your life if you stay with him. It takes a man to be a father. and our He has been torn up by the pain he has caused me. I wouldnt advocate using the pull-out method alone, but if some stranger says Its cool, Im on the Pill and you dont *quite* believe her and you dont have a condom, I guess it wouldnt hurt. 6napkinburger Hell, given the entitlement and lack of boundaries displayed in your letter, itll probably be your life no matter what. I have zero sympathy for for any guy crying about how hes stuck paying for a child he doesnt want. Just like we trust people when they say they got tested? Oops, it took so long that I thought my post was lost in space. I was thinking this letter was going to be juicy!! A month after the abortion, while I waited for my luggage at the baggage claim, three babies surrounded me, all under a year. He knew it but was willing to take that risk just like any man does when they engage in sex with a woman. TheQuietOne But woman, grow the hell up. I just found out that someone he had slept with before we got back together is pregnant. I take it, then, that your position is that a man should never ever have sex unless hes either (a) sterile, or (b) willing to raise the possible resulting child and/or pay for that child for a couple of decades, but that a woman has those choices but also can opt for an abortion and so can opt out of the obligation of a child. I Broke Up With My Boyfriend But Question My Decision You sure arent one. April 10, 2012, 7:09 pm. Of course there are the people who assert that others have no right to an opinion regarding birth control, abortion, or other actions. What you would do in her situation is irrelevant. Medications interfere with birth control, not taking it at the same time and whole other host of reason why she could have legitimately gotten pregnant on birth control.